MOONIEZ Secrets to Irresistible Sensuality

XXX Dare

2006-04-27T09:40:00.000-07:00

So you say you are fun, exciting, and/or adventurous? So are you really? DO you dare to liven up your life with this Liberating dare? OK I'm cutting all the bullshit and getting to the dare.
I dare you to become an exotic belly dancer for a night. Spring this suprise on your next date and he'll dream about you for the rest of his life. Dress up in a long flowing skirt, halter or pretty bra, don a bunch of bracelets, find a gauzy scarf to seduce him with, and one of those belly dancing scarfs! This is every man's dream.....stripping for him is overdone and its more fun to be a little mysterious. Try this and you will far along to unleashing the wild beast inside.

Clothes are Overrated

2006-04-25T21:18:00.000-07:00

We are taught that we and how we dress are responsible for how men treat us. My question is where is the sense in that. First of all at no point in time does any person have any control over the behavior of another. The first question should be why men are taught that if a woman is dressed sexy then he has no reason to respect her and has the right to treat her any ole kind of way. That makes as much sense as white folks who say that black people had no rights they were bound to respect. If a woman was walking around but ass naked when a man sees here he has full control over his faculties and can decide to treat her with the decency and respect he would give any other human being or he could be nasty and disrespectful. If a man tells me that I need to put some clothes on for him to treat me with common courtesy and respect then I can correctly assume that he doesn’t respect women at all unless they conform to his idea of what they should do

Isn’t it funny though that men prefer women to dress sexy but only in environments that the men control and if it is for their pleasure. I’ve been doing this experiment in being naked. Mind you with my modesty upbringing being born and raised Muslim, cutting an arm or a leg off is easier than me being naked. And for days after I put up my naked picture on my space I was so uncomfortable. Felt all exposed and couldn’t even look at my picture. The thoughts running through my head were the ideas that I had been taught. That men would disrespect me. That men would consider me a sex object. That I was exposing myself and my biggest worry was what other people would think.

My first experience was that I receive a comparable number of hey sexy nice pic responses as I do from any of my other pictures. I did get a couple more picture comments though. My next realization was that what the fuck do I care and why am I judging myself according to how I have been taught to think with ideas that only serve to give men a free rein in not being accountable for their behavior and to oppress women. My question was why I was judging myself according to standards that I don’t even agree with. So I was like dammit it is my body. If I choose to go around naked, it is my choice.

And lastly what is wrong with being seen as a sex object. At some point or at least occasionally women want to be seen as sex objects. I am slowly but surely releasing my horror over being thought sexy and being found sexually attractive and embracing it as a natural, healthy and positive thing. And once again men don’t mind seeing women as sex objects but only under circumstances that they can control. I trust that I will see the day that women start living for themselves and do what they damn well please just because they feel like it.

Isn’t it interesting that we as women have been taught that it is sinful to use our bodies and our sensuality as part of our arsenal of abilities and assets to get what we want and need? What is the difference between a woman using her sex appeal and a man using his brute strength? There is no way that the universe would create males and females in such an unbalanced manner that each didn’t have its own unique strengths and weaknesses to balance out the other. And of course it is in men’s favor and our disfavor to be ashamed to use our assets to get what we want. Fuck that

So here is my scenario for all of the people who say that clothes do make the woman and if she is dressed like a ho then she should be treated like one and that men can’t help themselves:

If I took five women or similar look and build, lined them up in a row and dressed them in the identical outfit and took one man and recorded his thoughts and responses to each one, I can guarantee you that his response to each woman would be different. Because the reality is that yes your outer appearance and what you wear does have some bearing on how a man responds to you but that is only a part of the story it is far more important how you carry yourself, what kind of energy you are wearing your clothes in and the beliefs and ideas you are projecting on the world.

Mooniez designs clothes for women who like to at least occasionally be extremely sexy and naked. And a classic example is Mooniez Creative Director Halimah who prefers to be as naked as possible. She out of choice is a bra or halter top with her belly out and a mini skirt or a long skirt with a split up the thigh. Hoochie as all get out, or ‘skayntch’ as she calls it but she is never, ever disrespected. Guys give her compliments. Approach her, are definitely interested sexually and otherwise but never be talking crazy and I’ve seen other females with more clothes on than her who guys would say crazy shit to.

So Clothes can make the Woman but it really is your choice.

ANSWERS to WHY your MAN IS CHEATING???

2006-04-19T11:53:00.000-07:00

It’s driving me nuts, I’m feeling thrown away, used and discarded. I hate myself for putting up with his shit and feeling like I must stay. I hate that I’m still living this lie, that you’ve boxed yourself in because of your ego. Feeling that I must hang on because I’m too old, fat and fucked up in the head to find a better relationship. Well he’s better than that last guy. I’m sick and tired of playing games with him. But I’m too scared to start dating again. What if I might attract a worse guy. I’m feeling unworthy of anything better. Daddy I want to blame you for not being there you’re the reason why I have such fucked up relationships. Mama its your fault you put up with Daddy’s bullshit. That guy I used to be with that broke my heart made me like this. I’m so dumb for buying my man all this shit, trying secretly to keep him around. Ashamed because of my terrible relationship history. Feeling silly for I just can’t seem to get this relationship stuff right. At least I got a man a lot of girls can’t say that. I know he cheated but he’s changed, yeah right. Who am I lying to? Why am I trying to convince myself that this shit is different?
Do any of these ideas ring true for you. We all have our version of the same story. Learning to acknowledge your thoughts that reoccur in your head is the first step to letting go of them. Through my experiences after I noticed my insecurities I stopped letting them control me. I realized after I stopped blaming and feeling guilty for my past that I had to go through these things to become the woman I am. Now I appreciate myself and know that if my relationship doesn’t work out I’ll notice my lessons. As they say nothing happens to you it happens for you. I took responsibility of creating these disempowering relationships with guys who would never satisfy me unless they got brain transplants. I realized that me having all these negative beliefs about myself drove any man crazy. When a man is sure that you won’t go anywhere then he’ll start to disrespect you and not value the relationship as something he has to work to make better. Its my responsibility to take control of my life and what kind of relationship I’m in. I began to look in the mirror realizing that my man is a reflection of what I think about myself. So I decided to leave never look back focus on working on me. I found a man who sees my beauty through my remaining insecurities and I’ll leave if he’s stops seeing this in me.

WOW...I got rid of the PEST!

2006-04-09T10:45:00.000-07:00

For years I have been annoyed by this guy I went to school with. There are some people who know just the right way to bother or offend you. Well this guy seemed to go out of his way to seek me out to bother me. Anyway this particular guy is an insecure, male chauvinist rude pig, I can’t stand him. And there are few people that I can’t stand. But of course I am a woman so its been rammed and programmed in my head to be “NICE”.
I put with him and his annoying conversation whenever I couldn’t avoid him. He’d always find some reason to talk to me. He’d call me Ms. Hollywood (my boyfriend’s nickname) and that is just rude. For the last two years he’s been trying to get me to do his hair. I always made some excuse about being busy, having too much homework, or being preoccupied in some manner. I was not doing his hair, he wasn’t having his head between my legs for four hours under any circumstances.
The last time I was at my alma mater visiting my boyfriend, this guy found me again while I was sitting at the computer. He approaches me with this silly little grin and told me that he was going to have to get me to do his hair while I was there. I turned around looked him in the eye and told him, “that is not going to happen”. I smiled and went back to what I was doing. No explanations or excuses for him I felt no reason for them. I guess I’ve grown up because I didn’t realize what I had said. When he walked away without another word it registered how hurt he looked. My response had come out so blunt…it was like saying hell no but not being ignorant about it. I laughed to myself because he had bothered me far too long. For the rest of my stay he didn’t say a word to me, he’d just look at me from afar. It’s so great to be empowered!

A new woman has emerged

2006-04-09T10:15:00.000-07:00

I’m playing this GAME, in 90 days I will accomplish these outrageous goals. The goals I set are to raise 5 million for Mooniez, launch my motorcycle club, lose 15 lbs., Channel 90 people in 90 days, write 90 days to becoming irresistible, and to write and record my album and get signed. I’m so excited about this journey of change the cells in my body are adjusting as if they have been starving for this structure and new way of thinking all along. Its scary when you’re forced to succeed. This is structured so you can’t fail, everybody likes to play and nobody wants to be the loser.
Everyday I’m coming to great realizations and learning new lessons. I’ve realized that I’ve lived my whole life being so scared to fail/succeed that I don’t even half step….I fourth or eight step my way through most things. I’ve realized that I usually give up right before I succeed and that I NEVER put my all into accomplishing something for me. I’ve been just waiting to see if things will happen for me, if my dreams are written in the stars then they will miraculously come true. The majority of the time when I’m offered ways to get closer to realizing my dreams I’d be so scared and paralyzed that I couldn’t take advantage of the blessings sent to me.
I’ve realized that I have been feeling guilty of being my outgoing, beautiful, personable, mischievous, intuitive, stubborn, crazy, creative self. The shame surrounding who I really am to the core has become a burden on me. I am ready to releasing these fears of being ostracized and rejected. These ideas that weren’t apparent in my conscious mind aren’t empowering and are not working for me.
This first week has been very stressful but I’ve never in my life felt as if I’m living and making quick strides towards my purpose everyday. Releasing these old ideas through tears, bouts of moodiness, moments of exhilaration, feelings of heaviness, feeling like I’ve donned on my wing have all led to a truly wonderful week for me. I’ll be sure to keep ya’ll updated on my progress.

MOONIEZ Inc.Raising $5,000,000 to Launch Company

2006-04-03T07:35:00.001-07:00

"Raising $5,000,000 to Launch Company" ...

We are absolutely thrilled to now be in the part of the MOONIEZ business plan where are going to be fully funded. Woo Hoo. Our game plan is to raise 5,000,000 to launch MOONIEZ by the end of June. By the end of this upcoming month we would have raised our first million. In May our goal is 2,000,000 and by June we will have raised the remaining 2,000,000. We aren’t completely certain of the how, but we at MOONIEZ are 100% committed to “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality” and creating the space where all women can be empowered and irresistible and so we have set our intentions and fully trust that the Universe will assist us providing us with everything we need in manifesting 5,000,000 easily, effortlessly and have fun doing so. We will keep you updated on our progress and welcome all positive energy and encouragement.

Love Ya’ll
The MOONIEZ Mama’s
Arletta, Latifah, Halimah and Ayesha

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

XXX Dare

2006-04-01T20:51:00.003-08:00

Ya'll have been begging for the next dare. This week XXX dare is so much fun and guaranteed to add juicyness and excitement to your life! It has to do with our favorite internet addiction.....Myspace. How did you guess? Okay here goes!! I dare you to write a description of how a "special myspacecrush" or "really hot myspace guy" makes you feel. At the end of the description write "I'm your secret admirer and have been too shy to tell you this. If you think this is you and you feel the same write back!!" Make this description detailed as possible and POST AS A BULLETIN!!! The more interesting the message the better the response.

Part 1: Downlow Brothas

2006-04-01T20:41:00.001-08:00

...are the result of us losing the essence of what it is to be a woman.. Our responsibility as women to be fully feminine, we must embrace our sensuality and sexuality and stop honoring only our masculine traits as being the acceptable ones. Our femininity is the root of our power. When you learn to act in this nature you allow men to take back their place and take back your own place. By doing this we learn how powerful it is to be gentle, to cry, to be emotional, to operate out of intuition. As women we must regain our strength rediscover our power. For we are far more than just sex objects. There is nothing wrong with being a sex object but is that all you are. Ask yourself…why do I feel the need to be this way, is this the only way I can get attention? Being sexy is beautiful when you know your power. Is your sexiness serving you? Is sex filling a void, does it give you comfort, do you feel LOVED and appreciated for a little while, are you trying to get your power or control back, does it make you feel worthy? And we wonder why men avoid having sex with us???? There is just too much shit attached to having sex with most females and that comes along with it. We’ve all been hurt, molested, robbed of our femininity but we must stop viewing ourselves as damaged goods and realize that we are the undiscovered diamonds.

New Flavor...Nutty Coconuts...Yummy...SLURP...SLURP!!!

2006-03-27T16:02:00.000-08:00

Sensualicious Poetry

2006-03-22T18:29:00.000-08:00

"BBQ Sauce (final course)" ...

With BBQ cooked

"over easily well done"

it can still sautee'

all day in the Sun

smokin' from this

"hickory lickory rock"

simmerin' that pot so hot

the heat might crack the crock

this is the course dedicated

to all Blacque Sistory on rotisserie

flavor assorted so ridiculously

it's like an "Oh My Lord!!" smorgasbord

it used to be called "kabob"

until you Queens put the "shish" on it

if my rib wasn't served with

sweet and spicy

I didn't want it

or need it

it'll take quite a bit of shake

to bake what we're lovin' in the oven

for us to eat it

and when some us do???

we won't stop until we see

two honeyed B's on the Q

why do you think Brothas

lick their sticky fingers

won't use or even ASK for a napkin????

First piece I ever wrote started with:

"I savor the flavor of 'Baby Got' back ribs"

that's how this whole

Beautiful BlacQueen thang

happened..........

Wone

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

DREAMIN....

2006-03-22T18:17:00.000-08:00

"DREAMIN..." ...

I am absolutely thrilled to have rediscovered that my long lost, forgotten and forsaken childhood dreams and fantasies are the keys to my living a truly fulfilled and passionate life. Remember back in the day as kids when the whole world was nothing but possibility and anything, no matter how big or grand, was achievable. And our favorite pastime was daydreaming about what we were going to be and have and do when we grow up.

Well I am encouraging everyone to reconnect with that fearless little girl with the unlimited and infinite dreams and possibilities and have direct access to our personal keys to our true greatness and satisfaction. The amazing world that we envisioned as a kids does exist and is very real it is just that our perceptions of reality that have changed

So I am encouraging you to reconnect with that little girl, who in her innocence and naiveté was far more an authentic reflection of our true potential and worth than the diminished person we find ourselves as adults with all our self-imposed limitations and beliefs. Select a dream, fantasy or desire, no matter how big or small, that you always dreamed of doing and start taking steps towards manifesting it in your reality today.

Think back to when you ‘life and other peoples fears and limitations’ first started getting in the way and you began believing that your dream wasn’t possible. Take note of those thoughts and beliefs and step back and observe much how they have shaped your present reality. The idea is to identify and transform these beliefs and once you have done so then you can manifest however many of your childhood dreams you want because anything truly is possible.

In future articles we will introduce this amazing, easy, painless, immediate and permanent tool of transforming beliefs and ideas called EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and incorporate this practice into future articles. The goal is for you to easily and effortlessly blast through your resistance and start creating miracles like you have always dreamed possible. Like the ones we have been manifesting in our lives using EFT.

So decide today what childhood dream you left behind and deemed no longer possible a long time ago that will bring the most joy, aliveness and satisfaction today and commit to making it into a reality. Because if your perception supports it dreams really do come true.

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

SATISFY MY SOUL - Connecting With Your Inner Magic, Spirit & Truth

2006-03-22T17:49:00.000-08:00

"NO APOLOGIES" ...

I have finally grown to the point where I no longer feel that I have to apologize for being female. In the past I was always trying to prove to men that I was not ‘emotional’. That they could depend on me to not get all caught up in my feelings and take things personal. Not realizing that all I was doing was denying my self expression while catering to them and trying to not them uncomfortable when they were the one who had been disrespectful or hurtful in the first place. Isn’t it amazing how we females have been conditioned to respond against our own best interest..

Fuck that. From this point on I reserve the right to get as ‘crazy bitch’ and emotional as I deem necessary anytime I damn well please. I am no longer restricting my honest expression of emotion so that I won’t make a man uncomfortable. What I am feeling and thinking at the time is exactly what I am saying, doing and how I am acting. For the first time I now feel free enough to own my experience and tell a man that he has hurt my feelings and that I don’t appreciate it. Cry if I feel the need or express my displeasure at being disrespected and not treated like the Goddess I am.

I have no need to start saying mean and hateful things to anyone. The “No Apologies” mode of expression is really all about expressing what I AM FEELING and really doesn’t have much to do with the other person. It is so liberating to tell a someone exactly how you feel. Then you eliminate the going around harboring hurt and feeling angry at being disrespected. Get it off of your chest and move on. A great way to live I tell you.

It is interesting because men feel very entitled and quite comfortable to throw bitch fits and make ridiculous demands whenever they please. And we find ourselves automatically to trying to soothe, appease and please them without thinking twice about it. Yet we as women don’t feel the same entitlement to express ourselves and when we need to express ourselves we don’t feel worthy of doing so and are apologetic and even diminish our experiences.

What we feel, even if it is crazy, justified or not, you owe it to yourself to express it. Once you put it out in the open you can deal with the ramifications if any and then it is no longer an issue. Your body will thank you because it isn’t storing stress, your soul will be pleased because you honored her and your little girl will feel quite powerful and respected because you honestly and authentically spoke your mind.

I wish I had learned this years ago and saved myself lots of stress and hurt but it aint never too late to become a more empowered woman. And the next time a man starts on his women are so emotional tip just smile at him knowing that his complaint is actually a compliment in disguise and the only reason they don’t want us to go that route is because it is so difficult for them to deal with. And of course if a man were cool and respectful we would never have a reason to go there in the first place. Not to mention knowing that men are way more sensitive than women and have far fewer resources to process anykind of emotion. And of course this is our little secret.

So no more apologies. Enjoy embracing all of the wonderful vagaries and contradictions of being female and let them start working in your life for a more powerful, authentic, satisfied and irresistible you.

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

Sensualicious Poetry

2006-03-09T11:38:00.000-08:00

"BBQ Sauce 7th Course" ...

Blazing flames are far from being sprayed out

Even though honey water flow warmly strays

About my face down the area located

Underneath your womanly waist sweet n’

Tangy is the texture my tongue tastes

In the moist magical and most sacred place

For you I will submit to your will submit to your will and reveal

Uninhibited erotica with u as my meal

Love sucked down to the bare bone

Breathing life into this 7th B.B.Q poem

Laying between this Queen became home

Always locked in lust without a key

Chained and linked embedded in ecstasy

Quintessential legacy I’m blessed to see

Universal Royalty is what U.R. to me

Earth’s MamaSista nurturing nature

Eternally the time to get cookin’ is certainly

Now………………………

Wone

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

Somebody stole my Vibersize bike idea!!!

2006-03-08T23:16:00.000-08:00

My good friend Maria on Myspace found this for me, I just had to post it for my readers.

KITTYCAT CHRONICLES- A Day in the life of a Fierce Lil' Kittycat

2006-03-08T21:59:00.000-08:00

February 20, 2006-My goal in my relationship is to make my man fall in love with me over and over again. I’m constantly doing things to blow his mind, touch his heart, and well maybe I shouldn’t tell you what else I do! It’s a constant work in progress because I have to always work on loving myself more for this effort to be sincere. I believe if your man is awesome then satisfying your fantasies and his imagination is a must. Men want to feel taken care of, so you stroke their ego and they work extra hard to keep you happy.

So this Valentine’s I decided I was going to surprise my man with the greatest Valentine’s Day in his life. He’s far away in school in Texas and I’m living in California. My money and his money were funny so we had decided to spend the whole day on the phone. I hopped on the plane and headed to Texas after he went to bed. I made it to Texas after getting harassed the whole plane ride by this hilarious guy sitting next to me. He wound up biting my thigh while I was sleep and I had to knock him in the head, so you know my trip was wild!

I arrived at my alma mater and got dressed at my sister’s house. I’m so glad I followed my first mind and didn’t wear this little Valentine’s number on the plane. My seatmate would've had his hand up my skirt. The dress I wore was so short and tight it was ridiculous, described by this guy as painted on latex. I so strategically earlier that week figured out where his class was being held without him having a clue. I found his class and waited outside the classroom.

He came out the classroom and was in pure shock! His eyes got so big, he covered his mouth and had to look away and look back. He thought he was hallucinating because he missed me. For the rest of the day he had a smile so big, his spirit was soaring...his baby suprised him on Valentine's. It was the greatest surprise because he had absolutely no clue that I was coming. Nothing feels better than making my man smile.

February 21, 2006-I have decided that there is such thing as getting too wild. I arrived home today from my week long valentine. I took off my clothes to hop in the shower and noticed I had a line of bruises down the side of one of my breasts. How you get these kind of bruises i have no idea. I also have no earthly idea how or what night this happened. I knew my nails were all broken from me hittin them against the wall, and my sexy heels were all scuffed up but damn bruises on my breasts...what the hell???

A couple days later I noticed my elbows looked a little too dark. I never pay any attention to my elbows. I'm always in the mirror but rarely if ever find myself checking how my elbows look. I thought my brain was playing tricks on me. So I had to check again. I couldn’t believe my eyes I had bruises on my elbows!! Big, dark black bruises...maybe I was in my favorite position too long.

Well I don’t regret any of my battle wounds, I'll admit had a wonderful, firework filled, seeing the mountain top, multiple orgasm time earning every single one of those bruises.

THE LIES THEY TOLD US

2006-03-08T21:54:00.000-08:00

"The Lies They Told Us" ...

Almost everything my Mama taught me about men is absolutely, positively not true. Now I love my Mama and her advice on everything else is pretty sound but when it comes to men she was about as clueless as all the rest of us females. So we are going to debunk some of the most harmful myths, lies and dangerous ideas that we females constantly use that sabotage any possibility of us having a wonderful and amazing relationship where we are respected, satisfied, and treated like the Goddesses we are.

Myth Number 1:

Always be extra nice to your man no matter what he does, cater to his every need and always do the right thing even when he doesn’t, buy him nice expensive gifts and toys, it is your duty to give him sex whenever he wants it, you must change yourself for him if he asks you to and be the kind of girl he wants you to be, never, ever complain when he doesn’t treat you wonderfully, never demand what you need and automatically expect him to know what you want. If you do all of these things the better your man will treat you and the longer they will stay around.

Reality:

The more you love yourself and accept only treatment that honors and respects you,
the more honest and authentic you are about expressing your needs and requesting your wants, are nice to your man and cater to them if and only if they are treating you wonderfully, the better they treat you and the more they love, value and respect you and the longer they will stay around and most importantly the more satisfied and happy you will be.

Application:

I was always extra nice to my husband. I called when he didn’t call, I remembered his birthday and other holidays and bought him gifts when he barely remembered mine and would give me a call and was going out of his way if he sent me a card. I never complained and made excuses for him when he treated me shitty, never insisted on my needs being met and he treated me like the asshole he was. But he did stay around. I finally grew to the point where I loved and respected myself enough to accept that he couldn’t and wouldn’t honor and respect me.

After I began honestly and authentically expressing my needs and wants and he made no attempt to be nice, let alone please me in any way and I was not at all satisfied or happy in the relationship I left. I had allowed him to treat me so bad for so long and let him get away with murder and had been so faithful and uncomplaining and loyal that even when we separated he didn’t believe that I was really through with him and was going to divorce him. I finally got to the point where I realized that he was not worthy of my being nice or even cordial to him after all of the disrespect, lack of support and mistreatment and totally cut off all contact with him.

I told him to not contact me at all. If I needed to contact him I would. At first he stopped calling like I requested but then he started calling me cause he didn’t respect me enough to honor my request. I refused all his phone calls. I never replied to any of his email messages, if I needed to communicate with him it was through a family member. Didn’t acknowledge his birthday, Christmas, New Years or anything. After a month or two he finally started taking me seriously. He started sending me messages apologizing for his behavior, acknowledging how horrible he was to me and asking for my forgiveness. He eventually agreed to all of my terms and conditions for the divorce and even messages me online knowing that I will not respond just to say hello and ask how I am doing.

In other words a man that treated me like shit, had no respect for me whatsoever and didn’t do a single nice thing for me when we were married is now the nice, kind, cool man that I thought I fell in love with. Only now it is too late cauz I am no longer in love with him. However he treats me well and in any further interaction I will never have to worry about him disrespecting me again and not taking me serious. It took me having to end my marriage to learn my lessons about how to treat a man so that he treats you wonderfully but I have learned my lessons well and look forward to having a wonderful and amazing next relationship.

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

The Mooniez EVOLUTION

2006-03-08T21:42:00.000-08:00

Mooniez Inc, is a clothing design company that markets “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality” and whose underlying goal is the empowering of women and nurturing an evolution where women can easily transform themselves into the Sensual, Irresistible, Sexy, Powerful, Bold, Fearless, Confident and Feminine Women who take responsibility for creating the kind of reality we want for ourselves, our families and the world. The Mooniez Evolution is all about us women taking our rightful place as co-creators with men as full participants in the overseeing, protecting, nurturing and improving and bringing about healing, balance and justice of life for everyone on this planet.

Our vision for the Mooniez Evolution is for the ‘empowered Feminine’ to emerge as an avenue for women to access their power and express it in the world while being firmly grounded and connected to their sensuality and intuition and comfortably operating in feminine energy. Imagine what 5000 totally Irresistible and Empowered women working in harmony with each other can accomplish. We can transform the world. And this is our ultimate vision. We are thrilled that you have decided to join us on this amazing journey and are already excited at the results and transformation we are witnessing in our lives and the lives of our readers. WOO HOO!!!!

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

Sensualicious Poetry

2006-02-21T15:31:00.000-08:00

"BBQ Sauce (Sixth Course)" ...

Eyes just love peerin'

at a bomb-ination of

"thoroughbreaded"

sugar puddin' honeysuckle

nipplenutpassionfruit

soup slurpin' sistas with all

those beef, turkey, and chicken jerkin'

Godly body parts workin'

Waffle House grits and eggs eatin'

holy rollin' church goin'

I'm on this BBQ jones fiendin'

arched eyebrows small

silver balls on the nose

piercin' the Love zones

bandannas on their thunderdomes

nails color brushed in Mother Earth tones

smiles engaged in chiseled dimples

'bout to get me in trouble

double XX breasts and

itty bitties with nipples

smaller than pimples

they've all got a Big Mama's

kitchen smoky aroma nevertheless

and that Arabian cobra neck

movement and that lip smack

comes with the rest

it means a Beautiful BlacQueen's

got some steam She needs

to clean off her chest

Enter course #6:

A King must know how to stage a taste test

Only a "crispy" nugget

is at best to do some deep dippin'

the award winning sauce is the flavor

that comes out the corner of the mouth

down south busted water faucet drippin'

you better let her know that She won

and King must give her that winnin "Ribbin'"

Wone

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

SINFUL DELIGHTS:The Art of Self-Indulgence

2006-02-21T15:04:00.000-08:00

"Strawberries and Cream with a Luscious Twist" ...

In our constant quest for the ultimate in "Sinful Delights" a girlfriend introduced us to the old favorite 'Strawberries and Cream' with a twist. What you do is take fresh and succulent strawberries, dip them into sour cream and then sprinkle brown sugar on top of the cream. Simply blissful. Prepare them for solitary enjoyment or if want to share bring them to your next party and watch yours be the most popular dish there guaranteed. Enjoy but don't hurt yourself, unless of course that gives you additional pleasure.

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

SATISFY MY SOUL - Connecting With Your Inner Magic, Spirit & Truth

2006-02-21T14:58:00.000-08:00

"EXPRESS YOURSELF" ...

I would like to invite you to join me on an exploration of what it is like to authentically, absolutely and honestly express yourself in every aspect of your life.

First go on a shopping exploration and buy an item of clothing or jewelry that you have always admired but never bought or would never wear it. And wear the damn thing. It can be anything, a hairstyle that is gorgeous but doesn’t fit your idea of who you are, some fun and wild makeup, an outrageous piece of jewelry that makes you feel self conscious yet funky or sexy or playful or whatever.

Next try complimenting five people a day for an entire week and see how your heart warms when their faces light up and how much joy you have added to your life. How about in a totally random situation give someone who needs some love a random hug or kiss you guy in the middle of the supermarket or race around the house playing tag with you kids.

The next time or create a time to have a wonderful reason to express extreme emotion really get into it. If it is something to celebrate scream at the top of your lungs, jump up and down, pick someone up and swing them around. Or if you feel the need to cry take out the time for a tremendous bawling session. I mean feel as sad, miserable, and sorry for yourself as possible. Plant your box of tissues next to you and take it to a whole nother level with gusto. Put all of yourself into and see what a difference it makes, what a release, what a celebration.

Pick one person that you have always wanted to tell something positive, loving and affirming but have been too afraid to do so and go for it. Pick someone that you need to tell what you really think about something that has been causing pain, anger or frustration and experience the release of that emotion and the satisfaction and the respect of being authentic.

Go dancing and get out on a dance floor and act a damn fool, dancing as crazy or nasty or old school or new school as you wanna and rekindle how much fun it is to let go. Practice this ultimate, expanded possibility of expression daily looking for opportunities to do so and watch your life expand and your satisfaction quotient explode!!! How fun is that.

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

2006-02-21T14:51:00.000-08:00

LIVE AN... Orgasmic Life
...At MOONIEZ Secrets Blog

THE MOONIEZ MINI

2006-02-21T14:23:00.000-08:00

"Why Mini Skirts?" ...

MOONIEZ first line, available in fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 07, will feature the MOONIEZ Mini. Halimah Saafir, the Creative Director for Mooniez, Inc. and originator of the concept of the MOONIEZ Mini selected the mini as MOONIEZ primary product because the MOONIEZ mini she feels the mini gives women the chance to redefine sexy and sensual. Halimah, a huge fan of mini skirts and being as naked as possible in general, knows that indulging in wearing a mini skirt is all about honoring your body while being proud and comfortable in displaying your body. She says that “Mini skirts are powerful because they are ultra feminine and to wear a MOONIEZ mini you have to be confident in yourself, in your beauty and comfortable in your body. And the MOONIEZ Mini personifies the ultimate in empowered, sexy, celebrated and confident femininity.” The MOONIEZ Mini is something you wear to please and indulge yourself. Yet at MOONIEZ we know that every man’s fantasy is a woman in a mini skirt and since we acknowledge every woman desires to be the center of attention at some point we are offering every woman the opportunity to fulfill her ultimate fantasy, satisfaction guaranteed. The MOONIEZ Mini Coming SOON!!!

MOONIEZ Creative Director: Halimah Saafir in a MOONIEZ Mini

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

Sensualicious Poetry

2006-02-13T17:13:00.000-08:00

"BBQ Sauce (fifth course)" ...

Hair twisted and swirled

like curly fries

cocoaccino laser beams for eyes

lips soft as candy cotton

sweet and thick like

triple fudge chocolate

chips in the thighs

hoots, hollas, cat calls,

and dreamy sighs

these BBQ Sauces tenderize

the divine diaspora is so

universally fluid

Amazonian Nile River length hair

to crops so short

that picks can't comb through it

forever eternal the backbone

of every resident

Earth, Wind, Fire, and Water,

The Afrikan Mother, Sister, and Daughter are the purest of Nature's Elements

divided in precious increments

of our Creator's multiplied gifts

hell if I'd miss

signifyin' this BBQ kiss

to ALL complexions outstandin'

so roasted and bun toasted

skin don't need tannin'

but those hips need

to be paid some shippin'

before handlin'

gettin' sent into the hands....

of a Beautiful Blacque..... Man

Wone

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ, Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

THE VIBERSIZE BIKE

2006-02-05T23:09:00.000-08:00

"Wow, a bike with a Vibrator installed" ...

A few weeks ago I was talking to my boyfriend we were working out and he was laughing at me commenting go on how hard my nipples were. They poke through my sports bra every time I’m exercising. We spend a lot of time apart and have to find ways to “not cheat”. It can be quite a challenge, he better be glad he’s worth the wait. While he works out to relieve sexual tension, I attempt to work out to try the same thing and it just makes me hornier. The things that work for guys don’t work for me ,cold showers are useless and half the time playing with myself makes me want a man in my bed even more. A wonderful idea popped in my head……why don’t I install a vibrator in my exercise bike. Well at the time I was joking but the more I thought about this the better it sounded. Could you imagine……now I can exercise and relieve sexual tension, too? It gives me an incentive to work out, adds excitement to my regular boring workout, burns twice as many calories, I'll find myself wanting to work out twice as long, and I'll be able walk away from my workout session feeling pleased and satisfied. Well I've decided that other women might find this useful so look out for it in stores near you.
Coming soon………….. “The Vibersize Bike”.

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ, Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.

Sensualicious Poetry

2006-02-05T22:56:00.000-08:00

"BBQ Sauce (4th course)" ...

I decorate this sheet of wood

with a journal of my journey today

tastin' plenty of chocolate

drip into the Black Expo this Saturday

confirmin' my sweet tooth

that BBQ Sauce is "the truth"

plump popsicle suckers

rumps rockin' thicker than others

both are purposely poked out

every skirt, skin tight jean,

stretch pants or dress

y'all's hips seem choked out

leather strapped sandals with

rings around polished open toes

all Sistas so fierce

have got somethin' pierced

ears, tongue, or nose

styles of hair in braids, waves,

curls, fades, weaves, twists, locks, and 'fros

this Expo ain't nothin'

but a Beautiful BlacQueen fashion show

some sistas achieve the

child-size-sweet-‘n-petite

pony-tailed-head-to-six-inch

plastic-boosters-on-the-feet

or a kinte-cloth headress

Afrikan Ankh wearin' goddess

wrapped in all the Motherland's colors

not just Red, Blacque, and Green

but all the others

lookin' like Queen Hatshepsut

commandin' respect from the Brothas

then there are the ones

that make grown men shed tears

body sculpted by Pam Grier

her outfit is askin' her,

"How'd all this shit get in here?!?"

the minute she walks in the place

you'll hear....."Gyot.......DAMN!!"

she'll have enough goods

to feed THREE people

with each serving equal

or just a hungry Brotha

with Wone appetite lethal

everything in her life is thick

"I'll have extra 'whateva' on that"

is her motto

and the main reason why

"BBQ Sauce is 'the lick'"

and I got it locked in a bottle

next there's the UltraGorgeous

72-inch high slender sleek Supamodel

that no one approaches (from a straight angle)

it's always,

"Hi, I'm the CEOPresidentProducerOwner

of my AgencyEntertainmentFirmEnterpriseCorporation.

It's a BusinessInvestmentCompanyMultimediaFoundation

and I'm lookin' for new faces like yours.

Here's my card....allow me the opportunity

to open your do-- I mean open "the doors"

they can't Peele Beverly

Webb Veronica or

Soup Naomi or

Bank{s} Tyra so

to get some "pretty paradise"

brothas will become liars(lol).....

I pour this Power cream

onto all my desires

margarine and oils that melt

is for bustas

I baste everything with

Grade A Royal Makende Butter

the tighter the spread,

the better a 'circulation cutter'

overstandin' each dialect that

Body Language has to offer

and these Sistas NEVER stutter

it just solidifies the potency

of being a BBQ Sauce Lover.........

Wone

MOONIEZSecrets is sponsored by MOONIEZ, Inc. At MOONIEZ, Inc. we provide the avenue for women to awaken her sensuality and feminine power through our exclusive, limited edition, custom fit, fabulous clothes and accessories. MOONIEZ, Inc. is the collective vision of four dynamic and exceptionally talented sisters whose mission is “Unleashing Irresistible Sensuality”. We at MOONIEZ excitedly anticipate sharing our vision with the world. Look for MOONIEZ coming soon to your favorite fine boutiques and department stores everywhere Spring 2007.